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Family Bonds

Youngest and last living child of Mintry Muse, Geneva Feemster knows something about the ties that are formed in a family...especially when you grow up in a household with four older brothers and you're the only girl in the family. I grew up hearing stories of how as a young man, my father enjoyed going to dances.  At the time, there weren't many places in the vicinity of Marshall, VA for young black folk to socialize...to do so, you had to travel more than a few miles.  Aunt Geneva also wanted to join in the fun. But, realizing she was too young to participate, she'd hide in the back of the car, before Ambrose left, but waited until he arrived at the dance hall venue, a number of miles and long drive later, before revealing she had taken the ride with him. At this point, Ambrose would have to turn around and take her back home. To say he was irritated was probably the understatement of the century.  Good story, funny story. But, a story that manifested itself a generation later because as the only daughter of Ambrose, whenever I annoyed him, he would always get our names mixed up and call me Geneva and vice-versa, call her Linda.  Moral to this story...despite the moments unique to growing up in a family with significant age differences, the brother sister bond remained strong throughout the years, as was the case with her other brothers. They were a close- knit family unit and looked out for one another.  The legacy of "being there" for one another is a tradition we should all aspire to continue in good times or bad.  Geneva carries on the tradition of being the listening ear, the mentor, the point of reference on family unit history for the generations of Mintry and Marie Muse descendants.   We thank you.

Story Contributor: Linda Muse

Geneva Feemster
Daughter of Mintry & Marie Muse

Know your family history

Rosemary Harris will proudly tell you that she's retired. But, it only takes a minute into a conversation with her to realize her level of energy would put a much younger person to shame. If this is what "retirement" looks like, then please take me there.  Aside from "energetic," other adjectives that describe her would include efficient, forthright, loyal and passionate...especially when it comes to the importance of family history. As she will tell you, knowing something about your ancestors is a lesson passed down from her mother, Bernice Harris,  granddaughter of Frances Muse. Frances was the first born child of Martin and Roberta Muse.  She understands that we all stand on the shoulders of those who came before us and knowing something about their journey only serves to increase an understanding of who we are; promote our sense of belonging to something bigger than ourselves and give us a better perspective on how our daily trials and tribulations stake up in comparison. Over the years, Rosemary has hosted family unit reunions.  This year, she heads up the family history segment of our 2017 reunion and will be sharing that information with the family at large on the day of the reunion, in addition to the documents she's made available on the website.  Her tireless efforts to bring family closer together and make family history available to all of us is greatly appreciated. Just like the background shown in her picture, she's a family monument. We thank you Rosemary.

Story Contributor:  Linda Muse

Rosemary Harris
Great Granddaughter of Frances Muse

Support the family

How do you describe an enigma?...especially as it pertains to Joan Muse. Wife, mother, grandmother and great grandmother are just a few of the roles that she can claim. But, more importantly, let's get to the "enigma" description. Graceful, yet tough. Soft-spoken, yet a force to be reckoned with if ruffled. Refined, yet street smart and realist. In short, someone you wanted to be like when and if you ever grew up...someone you could talk to and never worry about being judged. Someone, along with her late husband, Robert "buddy" Muse, always kept an open door and heart for family...whether it was in the form of a holiday family gathering, the phone call to find out how you were doing...the conversations up close and personal...you always felt the interest was genuine, the advice and support solid as a rock...a foundation and living road map of how you handle the ups and downs of  life with style and grace under fire, while still maintaining a sense of humor. Thank you Joan for setting the bar and providing the example on support of family. 

Story Contributor:  Linda Muse

Joan Muse
Daughter-in-law, Mintry W. Muse
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